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Some days, my hair is completely compliant, gorgeous, and controlled. Most days, it ain’t. Thankfully, over the years I’ve cultivated a few hacks that I find not only to be effective, but inexpensive and quick. And since I’m all about the sharing, I’ve systematically listed my tips and tricks for your […]
Listen up, boos of natural hair.
Sometimes you want to the surprise the natural hair wearers that you love, which is awesome. But when certain special days surprise YOU, it’s time for a contingency plan. Don’t have one? No worries. We gotcho playa.
1.The roses are sold out and if you want to survive the coming hours, you’re going to have to move on. Fortunately, the avocados are still plentiful. Head over to your local grocer and scoop up 8 to 10 for your lady. Packed with vitamins and healthy fats, they make an amazing strengthening and moisturizing conditioner when mashed down and blended with olive oil and plain yogurt.
She’ll thank you later.
2.You can buy her negligee if you want, but the chances of you picking a flattering cut, size and color from the dregs of yesterdays frenzy are very slim—especially under stress. Skip the silk and satin under things for silk and satin pillow cases and sheets. They’re easy on her kinks and coils and just as sexy as lingerie with the added bonus of being more thoughtful!
3. A bottle of champagne is nice. But for our boys on a budget a bottle of argan oil is right up your alley. 100% Pure Argan Oil isn’t as readily available as many of us naturalistas would like and when it is, its usually a pretty penny. (A cute penny, really. $10 an ounce isn’t unheard of.) But that’s only because it’s arguably one of the best oils available not only for hair, but for scalp and skin as well! If you’ve got $20 and can locate some in your city then Happy Valentines Day to you sir! You deserve it!
4. The girl who can run out of both shampoo and conditioner at the same time, is doing something terribly wrong. Many women will use one bottle of shampoo to two bottles of conditioner. And that doesn’t include those of us who are bathroom chemist and like to mix and blend and concoct things. So if you absolutely cannot locate avocados, satin sheets, or argan oil, pick up at least two bottles of her favorite conditioner and a nice leave in to go with it, making sure petroleum and mineral oil are not among the list of ingredients.
WARNING: When you walk in with bottles of conditioner, she will know that you forgot and you will be in trouble. This needs to be paired with the promise of shoe shopping, a nice meal, a back rub and #5.
5. Let’s say you can’t afford any of this (no shame, we’ve all been there). You can still show how much you care by indulging her in a nice, invigorating scalp massage. Scalp massages are important, not only for hair growth but also for stress and tension relief, but with our busy schedules, when it comes to hair care, scalp love is usually the first to be overlooked. Find a romantic movie on Netflix, light some candles and have her sit in a comfortable chair. Use the pads of your fingers to apply light pressure to the scalp in circular motions. Use peppermint or eucalyptus oil if you can. And be prepared to devote at least an hour.
Better luck next year!
Welcome to vintage Kiss My Curls! These were the very first videos that we ever shot with our gracious friends Curt and Warren, who were more than happy to contribute their opinion about natural hair. See what they have to say!
Warren (Check out his description of his favorite natural hairstyle. Completely adorable.)
Curt (Thinks that all women are artists. His words are TOTS beautiful, guys.)
Abby from My Hair Care writes: If you have natural hair, it is completely normal if not preferable to treat it using natural methods. Preparing your own homemade recipes can indeed combat the most common hair woes using natural means rather than exposing your hair to more damage. Here are DIY homemade recipes that you […]
Lupita Nyong’o almost wasn’t. In the past few months Lupita Nyong’o has taken the world by whirlwind storm with her grace, beauty, talent, and sincerity. She takes her pictures with a soft smile and a calm serenity, all the while totally killing a self-selected couture number (the girl has impeccable taste, yo). Every time she […]
How do I love thine gilded locs? Let me count the ways.
The title is long because it and only it captures the way watching the video below makes me feel. Ledisi’s song is light yet soulful, the beat is sick, and the hair…LAWD the natural hair styles in this video are breathtaking.
Also. She look fuggin FIERCE in it.
The man candy isn’t bad at all. 😉
Check it out:
Does love need a preamble? Especially HAIR LOVE?? No. But I’m a creature of habit. So deal. Inspired by Valentine’s Day in the way only single kinky-haired girls can be (or maybe just me) I decided that a great way to celebrate was to share some natural hair love with you guys! […]
Literately every time I tweet “The kinkier your hair is, the less likely it is to tangle” I get an overwhelming amount of responses from naysayers and skeptics (seriously, I could tweet it at 3 am and it seems like people would actually wake up in order to contest it). Trying to expound on the […]
Guys! My hair is growing out! Excuse me if my excitement seems unwarranted but after a year of coloring and manipulation, my hair was in a state of stagnation at best, damage at worst. This was upsetting to me for a myriad of reasons, you can imagine. 1) My hair wasn’t growing. That’s frustrating […]